Because no one reads journals save for close friends, I'm about to get some shit out in the open via Deviaion...
I probably wont submit this to the group although it merits being there to REALLY draw out a debate/discussion. I dont play into that "drama drama drama" stuff. If we can't debate and discuss civilly, then what kinda community are we?
Honestly, if you cant make comments or say things that can be said in public - or where the targeted audience will see... then why say it?
Fuck that shit, that ain't how we do it where i come from... Momma didn't raise me to deal with things in a indirect manner - so i'm going to be direct... not rude, but direct.
If being direct offends you, then sorry in advance. If having rude or forum statements brought to light where they can be seen offends you... get over it
If you can't handle people getting a chance to discuss what you say, then maybe you should be careful of what you say - here, forum, or anywhere else wise.
Im not planning to be hyper aggressive or rude, but i feel like this should be done in the open and people should be able to rationally discuss it. I feel like - atleast for me, NOW is the time to get everything out... if you have thoughts, or you got beef.. speak your peace... otherwise quite spreading poison within the community
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Listening to: other semi trucks Idle in a no idling zone
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Reading: this journal
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Watching: myself type
Honesty is very important but the problem with honesty not everyone can handle it in a direct way. Even if I welcome such an open and direct honesty much more than anything else.
It went on for the longest, and while the detractors may have had rational arguments ( none I found ground breaking ), Kiki threw out the best compromise... It doesn't HAVE to happen. That in itself makes them like nagas - they CAN swallow giants, but most every naga save for 2 doesn't do it. So it doesn't affect any ocs made at all.
But as you said, there are people who want things their way and so compromise for them was totally removing the trait- which I'm glad she fought for and didn't.
Hey, if you can't handle people leveling with you... Then maybe you (not you) should watch how you put yourself out there and how you treat others